Nowadays, we are trying to normalize “INSECURITY” as a crucial part of a healthy relationship by saying,
“If you love someone, you will feel insecure.”
After listening to this statement, as a curious mentality, I asked myself,
Q) Is it true?
Q) Does it even make sense?
After reviewing the mental data I have collected throughout my life, observing various scenarios, and recalling logical arguments, a simple answer came to mind that it cannot be true at all. I have a simple point to make that “LOVE” and “INSECURITY” are inversely proportional to each other, because
Love gives us freedom,
Whereas insecurity bounds us.
Love pushes us to test our limits,
Whereas insecurity holds us back.
Love accepts the way we are,
Whereas insecurity forces us to act differently.
Love accepts our mistakes and corrects them,
Whereas insecurity prompts us to hide our mistakes and to repeat them.
Love is a feeling that pampers us with a sense of security,
Whereas insecurity haunts us with a fear of losing.
Love is a feeling that unites us with others,
Whereas insecurity isolates us from others, leaving us feeling alone.
One thing is obvious when we bound people: it forces them to compromise, and over time, it becomes an extra burden that is very heavy to carry. Ultimately, it becomes toxic.
WHEREAS Love always flourishes our nature and personality, which makes us a better version of ourselves.
“NOW YOU HAVE TO THINK”
Thank You
