WHY DON’T WE

We are taught to ask questions—about what seems wrong, about what we do not understand. This is good, necessary, and valuable.

We are also taught that asking questions is our right. That is absolutely true, and I fully believe in it.

But here is something we often forget:

We constantly question others—why not ourselves?

Why don’t we question ourselves when:

1. We demotivate ourselves.
2. We blame others for our own actions.
3. We continue to blame instead of changing.
4. We place limits on our own potential.
5. We make judgments about others before knowing them.
6. We create expectations that may only hurt us.

The truth is, questioning ourselves is far more important than asking others.

The truth is, questioning ourselves is far more important than asking others.

Because nowadays, we are quick to notice what others are doing—but we rarely stop to analyse, realise, or observe what we are doing.

Two habits are very common:

• We blame others.
• We see ourselves as victims.

And when we do not question ourselves, then:

1. We will keep making mistakes, convinced that we have done nothing wrong.
2. We will keep searching for happiness in others, but never truly achieve it.
3. We will remain unable to move forward, because we keep blaming others for what happens to us.
4. We will keep hating others, but never understand the meaning of love.

If this continues, then:

1. We will keep making mistakes, convinced that we have done nothing wrong.
2. We will keep searching for happiness in others, but never truly achieve it.
3. We will remain unable to move forward, because we keep blaming others for what happens to us.
4. We will keep hating others, but never understand the meaning of love.

We must be very clear about this:

“Whatever we see outside is only a reflection of who we are inside.”

Everything starts within us, and everything ends within us.

So let us begin not only by questioning others—but by questioning ourselves as well.

Thank you.